The Organized Wedding is full of check lists for all the details you need to keep track of, with lots of white space to write it all down. Other than the shear emphasis on practicality, the two things that really set this book apart are that it helps you plan the actual ceremony (the part between getting dressed and going to the reception that most books seem to skip) and an entire section is devoted to your marriage because it is kind of important. As for all the fluff in other books, if you truly want to know the meaning of flowers, isn't that why we have the internet?