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THERE IS HOPE FOR HEALING! Who is this man that you married? Your world collapsed with the discovery that your husband betrayed you with his lies and unfaithfulness. Is he up in the middle of the night on his computer or phone? Do you have access to his passwords? Has he jumped from job to job? Do you feel that he has secrets, a double life, is gaslighting you, or is inattentive to your needs? Is he abusive or disrespectful to you or your children? Do you suspect that he is involved with pornography, affairs, phone sex, or visiting prostitutes and massage parlors? Engulfed in shame from this intimate deception, you are concerned about your family’s safety and integrity. You are shattered and need help for your next steps. How do you establish self-care and set healthy boundaries to prevent becoming re-traumatized? Is recovery possible for you and your partner? Does he still love you? Is he sexually addicted? Do you stay married, get a divorce, or separate? Where do you go to find help with a trauma-informed therapist? This book will explain what happens when sexual addiction starts living in your home. It will create awareness on how your partner’s behaviors could have developed from childhood sexual abuse, lack of childhood attachment, or trauma in his life. Find guidance to process your discovery, emotional triggers, and future disclosures. With a high-level commitment towards recovery, many couples can find healing and intimacy once again, perhaps even at a deeper level.