Being judged at my job by an older lady was the first time anyone openly admitted to judgement to me. Although over the years I have seen people staring and wandering when they can't seem to figure you out, instead of dedicating time to see who you are, they tear you down. Sometimes life will knock you down, but will you allow that to be your downfall? Is what other people say about you so important you forget about your own morals and values? In this book we are going to hold ourselves accountable. We are going to admit that we judge others sometimes unknowingly. We are going to discuss the disconnect in the generations, and talk about what we have to offer. We are going to incorporate a few bible verses as it relates to the text. But mostly we are going to talk about how crucial discouragement can be, life already has its own challenges, why can't we all just love who our hearts want to love? Is there harm in holding people accountable without judgment? Can you really hold someone else accountable without holding yourself accountable? I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it.