Why was this book written? From the hundreds of conversations with my fellow men and women and the lack of communication between the sexes. It was written for non-player male and female, from a male perspective. You know, that person at your job, school, gym, nightclub or wherever. The one who doesn't have all the smooth, charming words to say at just the perfect time, just to keep you laughing. Or the person who is a good person, but a little shy around people they don't know. Who, if you got to know them they might show you, life from a different angle. As a society, let's stop judging the book by the cover. Funny thing is; a lot of women think real men don't get hurt, cry or experience a heart break. Well, that's not true at all. Now we may not show this side to you, but it does exist. Sadly, society tells men, (or shall I say little boys) to ignore their feelings. If a little girl falls down, people run to see if she's ok. She's also typically referred to as, princess, baby girl or angel. Flip side-- if a boy falls down, he's typically told, "Boy, get up you're not hurt!" and he's called little man. As they grow older, as some women experience let down and heartbreak. Their friends spend countless hours encouraging them to express themselves emotionally. This usually lends itself to a quicker healing and general feeling of support. Conversely, when boys suffers heart ache/sadness, your friends say encouraging things like "You're better off without her!" or my personal favorite; "There are other fish in the sea." Ignoring the fact that this particular fish is the one you desire. So fast forward several years, --both sexes, are living life. One day they end up married. Now suddenly the man is expected to express himself as well as the woman. Remember now, she spent her lifetime expressing herself. Normally, men aren't very good communicators--we just like to fix it. No matter what it is from the car, to the house, to our beloved problems no matter how big or small